sometimes it's hard to tell, but it boils down to one thing... how someone that you love handles it if someone is trying to steal them from you. if you are honest, loyal, then no one can steal you away from your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife or husband!
some signs are the opposite sex flirting with your partner and your partner lapping it up and flirting back. if your partner doesn't keep dates, doesn't answer the phone and has one too many excuses as to why they haven't called or emailed you at least. sometimes it's better to look and listen than talk, so if you are suspicious keep your eyes wide open and your ears. if you think your partner is pushing the line, then tell them so and let them know in no uncertain terms you aren't putting up with it. you are in control!
i know one woman personally who tried to steal my husband from me. in fact, she tried to steal him when we first got together - he refused her then, telling her that he wanted to see where the relationship with me went. almost 4 years and 1 kids later, she shows up in his life via smses and starts pursuing him again - she keeps feeding my husband sob stories about how unhappy she was with her life, she refused to do anything to change it (well, except try to steal my husband)
she is, or was (haven't seen or heard from her since) the saddest person i know. she's a miserable, miserable human being. i feel sorry for her. her whole life will always be like this because she can't see any way to change it except through another man.
she didn't care about me or my children, even though she pretended to become my friend. she was so wrapped up in her own misery that she didn't care who she hurt. i don't know if she was born like this or made like this, and i don't know how much to blame on her depression or if she is depressed because she knows deep inside that she was wrong.
hurm.. its all about her needs and shes didn't care about the needs of others. she go for the married guy who has a good track record, the one in the long term relationship because she know there's a good chance that there going to get someone good who will give them what they want in life. whats goes around comes around babe!! yes karma does come to them no matter where they hide they always get it back. may take years but they don't get to "ESCAPE". she's just looking out for number one and often seeks what the wife has in life, financial stability, friendship, and a help mate in life. but she wouldn't be in his life if he didn't want her there.
i feel sorry for her in a lot of ways. her life could have been like mine but she made bad choices, and doesn't know how to change them. she'll never be happy unless she makes major changes.
"i am trying to understand it. why is it that there are women out there who don't have a conscience and think it their due right to have relationship with other woman's husbands? if they think it is about finding their happiness, don't they care about the happiness of the other women and children that they destroyed? don't they care that they have destroyed an entire family?"
me,
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